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Why is it a good thing to measure for counterfeit traits?

Well, sad as it is, most people lean towards the misuse of their genuine traits at least part of time. Often, we do not even know what genuine traits we have. Most people would not have even a clue which of their genuine traits they are misusing. We cannot change or improve what we do not understand. Solving Conflicts will make it easy for you to see your genuine and counterfeit traits.

So then, measuring your traits in this way will reveal to you two very important things:

You will see what genuine traits you have (and whether you lack in them.)
You will also see what genuine traits you are misusing as counterfeit traits.

What can you gain from seeing your counterfeit trait scores in comparison to your genuine trait scores? Consider this example:

Example: Joe learned this about Courage as it related to him:

He found out that his score for Courage was only 60. That is low. The highest score possible would have been 100. As he continued looking at his scores, he saw something that got his attention. He saw that he scored unusually high in counterfeit Courage. His scores for counterfeit Courage were:

Recklessness he scored 90
Brashness he scored 70
Brazenness he scored 100

As Joe read the Character Profiles in Part Two, he could see his own self clearly. He could see how his high scores for counterfeit Courage had caused big problems for him in his life. However, in the past he did not understand what caused some of his troubles. Finally, it was all starting to make sense to him.

However, one thing was really puzzling Joe. Although Joe scored low on the genuine use of Courage, he scored very high on the counterfeit use of Courage. Joe had never seen himself as a man of Courage. The high scores for counterfeit Courage told Joe that he had good potential to learn how to use genuine Courage. Joe found out that he possessed a great deal of Courage that he could use in a proper way.

The bad news was this: All through his life, Joe had been misusing the abundant genuine Courage that he never new he had!

It was great news for Joe to learn how to use true Courage. It helped him to avoid some of his bad troubles that had become so familiar. His family and friends were happy to see the positive change as well.

In addition, the Solving Conflicts system will help you to help other willing people. You will learn how to identify their character strengths and share it with them in a positive manner.